Clueless or Careless?

Serious question.... Do men really not realize when sex is, well, bad?


I've had experiences where I really, truly wonder why they would talk to me again and want to "hang out" again. There is the bad type where you just don't actually have good chemistry with someone. I've had this a couple of times where there just is no spark which makes it really hard to get into the mood and enjoy myself. Then there is the bad where one person just is NO good at what they are doing. When that happens, all that is going through my head, is WTF. Also, there should never be a point in the middle of a sexual encounter where you legitimately say "Oh...". That is not a good sign.

So when things like that happen, why oh why do men still try to get with you again??? Do they really not notice that it was bad? Or do they just not care because they are just happy to have a vagina to stick it in?

A few notes for men:
Women tend to really like foreplay. Warm us up a little bit!
The jack hammer method, and doing the jack hammer method only, is not enjoyable.
You know how much you love getting head? Well, we like it too. Just because you are young, does not give you a free pass on not giving us some oral fixation.
Don't be selfish! Get your girl off too. It should be satisfying for both parties involved!

Another quick question for men: Would hair be a deal breaker for calling a girl back or does that not actually matter as much as I think it does?

These are the types of conversations I have far too often with people. =P